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Oh yeah....so here are my life lessons to you. Take it or leave it. :
1. DON'T waste your time in a relationship with fights or insecurities.
"Actions speak louder than words"
and by the way... humans are the only animals that go against their instincts.
If you have a gut feeling = It's true he's/she's cheating.
(Unless YOU'RE the one that's cheating. Then you're just projecting your insecurities on him/her.)
If you think you're not being treated right day after day "I'm sorry" after "I'm sorry" =
leave him/her, they obviously DON'T think you're special enough to change their behavior.
it's THAT simple.
If you want to have fair fights, just MAKE RULES!
We have: no cussing, no put-downs, no making fun, and no razing voices.
Everybody slips, but an HONEST "I'm sorry"
is better than just fights that go in circles or attacks on each other.
It's a team effort. Welcome constructive criticism as
"He/She is saying this because he/she wants me to be a better me."
at first it was hard for me to hear my weaknesses,
but i realised he was pointing them out so he could be a part of helping me out.
Your weakness becomes something you dont HAVE live with.
You have a choice...you have control in WHO you are.
2. Theres no shame in David losing lefty cause losing LIFE isn't cool......
So if you suspect some thing's up with your body.....GO have it checked out!
3. Don't talk about your dreams, but make 'em happen.
Which pretty much translates into "Don't be lazy" and "just do it"
I can't stress enough in reading or looking into the lives of GREAT people.
I've done my homework, and I've come to find out that NOBODY is flawless,
but what they are unique at...THEY SHINE.
Apply that.
4. I donated my hair twice to LocksOfLove.org and you should too!
I'm growing my 3rd round of hair.
I know how hard it was for David to lose his hair.....
Why not help a kid out?
I can't stress it enough to people that it WILL grow back,
and you WONT miss it, considering you've made a kid's life a whole lot easier.
5. I got married and had a baby YEARS before i thought i would,
but if you have a partner/loyal friends/family that believes in you.......
then it's all good!
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I learned to not give so much love were it's not appreciated. I learned to keep my self-respect on check. I learned you can go through bad
times, but you have to keep positive. I learned love is easy. I learned you have to get off your ass to make a dollar! I learned how to hustle
and not waste time. I learned to pass petty people. I learned to not settle when it comes to love/marriage!
EVERYBODY has "a story" = This is mine.
If you Don't have one, then maybe it's cause you're floating through life.
So Don't float --> find a cause!
Click here to start helping out yourself to be able to help others or just grow....better yourself!
You choose to build hustle within yourself and not make excuses
or you choose to wish your life away.
I love to back people who are trying 24/7 on their dreams.
It takes motivation, help, being positive, and keeping your eye on the goal
I work hard to keep good. That should NOT be confused with weak.
All of the above has backfired on people who think I'm "showing off" this "perfect life". Heck yeah it's perfect! As perfect as I can make it.
I've paid my dues in heartache, realising and fixing my weaknesses,
making the best out of the worst, making my dreams come true, along with the tons and tons of frustrated tears I've shed.
So I humbly means the world to me if I get a note or comment on how I have helped somebody along on their journey
or roller coaster they are on!
People with open hearts see what I am doing. How I'm putting myself out there.
People who CANT back-up their talk with their lives think it's a show...
'cause that's what they do.
But it's no show. I would not have so many people close to me....
new friends and old saying the saaaaame thing about me =
I'm good and I'm sweet.
That's not to be confused with easy-to-walk on.
I've got a feisty side if I feel my self-respect is being challenged!
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